Dating Advice: How to Meet Quality Single Men

Hello ladies. My name is Rani. I am a 29 year old single woman living and working in Toronto Ont. Dating in a big city can be tough. I seem to keep meeting the wrong guy! Lately I found out why. I was just too darn desparet. Even though I know "rules" because my sister taught them to me, when she wasnt around I was a "man hungry monster! Today April 16 2008 I relaized what it takes to meet a quality guy. And this is all because of one "silent auctioneer."

7 Ways to meet Mr. Right

1) Ladies Mr. Right is not a cruiser.

If you are expecting Mr. Right to come up to you in a bar or a night club. Forget it. First of all if he is Mr. Right he probably wont be at that night club. He would be off looking after the business he owns, or mowing the lawn of his house, or spending time with his mother, or helping his niece with her math homework. Cruising for women at the Club? No! Cruising for women at the Bar? No!

2) Lots of guys know single guys

IM not saying you should go up to every guy on the street and ask him if he knows any single guys (although it would help) But you do want to let people know that you are single and seeking. The best thing you can do is. IF you know any girlfriends that live with their boyfriends, tell those ladies to ask their boyfriends if any of their male firends are single. If yes you have a potential match up. Go through friends and not family, much less pressure this way.

3) Go out by yourself

Im not saying become a loner. But do what I do. Find a local casual spot in your neighbourhood when you are feeling socail. Smile be friendly and you will make friends. The point of being by yourself is that you will make new friends improving your "meet quality man contacts" and men who are available will feel more comfortable approaching you..also you are most beautiful when you are in your most natural element meaning dress casual and be yourself and always smile at everyone. I cant stresss this enough always smile at people they will think you ware a happy person. they will remember you and they will be nice to you too.

4) Send your self love messages

What are you talking about Rani?? Love what? Yeah Noones going to love you if you are falling apart. You have to love your self first. I make a point of telling my self how pretty I am. at least once every day especially when I dont feel pretty and nobody knows but me. Becasue ladies what you feel on the inside always comes through on the outside. Be good to your self.The right guy will see your confidence ans want to get to know yoiu.

5) Let him find you

Dont look for Mr Right Make your life about every thing but meeting a quality guy and the quality man witll come. Sometimes when we want something so bad we can have anythign but that one thing we want. So keep busy and let him find you . belive me he wants to find you too. They like being the initiaor.

6) Be open

Dont have a check list of what this guy will look like Its one of the biggest mistakes you can make. You set your self up to A) miss out on a really great guy who could potentially love you and who would do anything for you. and B) open your self up to a Jerk that you just cant let go of because he fits the image in your head which isnt even reall by the watwho wants you to like how he looks and doesnt appreciate you becuase you are "just another woman who finds him attractive"

(not hwat you want

7) Get hooked up with an organization or create one.

This is a great way to meet quality guys. You could meet a guy at a church doesn tmatter what kind of church. You could meet a great guy volunteering once a month for older people or or as a big sister. or at a run to raise awareness. Start with some form of volunteering. Or create a club for single women who want to help with baby siting or weight loss motivation as a group please be patient remeber meeting a quality single man doesnt happen over night. only a one night stand does

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